Dear Uncle Loquacious,

Sincerely,
Fluid Attraction

Dear FA,

Wow! Interesting issue. Thanks for writing.

A couple of things strike me right off about your letter. First, I’m thinking, “Hmm… here’s someone always looking for something new.” You mention getting bored with relationships quickly, and your sexual appetites have changed over time to things more exotic. There’s nothing wrong with any of this, of course, but have you considered you might not be really wanting a relationship right now? It seems to me you are in full-blown explorer mode, and setting down with a cocker spaniel and the white picket fence doesn’t really suit the explorer mindset.

Being in San Francisco, as you mentioned, you do have options for meeting folks. You can use one of the sketchy online hook-up services and just state flat out in your profile what you seek. The problem with such sites is that you’re advertising a fetish, not a personality. You may find the hottest trannie ever created, and discover you have nothing in common. You could also try personals. I’m sure eHarmony is right out, but there must be something besides Manhunt, right? Explore your options; that’s your forte.

If your relationship boredom is solely due to the “been there, done that” of one sexual partner, have you considered an open relationship? Find the right match for your personality: someone you’d like to share your bed with in the morning as well as at night. Someone you’d cook for, or who would cook for you. Find another explorer, FA. One who has interests similar to yours. Then, go and explore together.

If none of this seems to resonate, I could pull out some psychobabble about how you’re setting yourself up to look for something or someone that doesn’t exists, specifically so you don’t have to settle down and stop putting notches in your bedpost. I doubt that’s true, though, and only you could know for sure.

At any rate, happy hunting, play safe and I hope you find what you’re seeking.

Love,
Uncle Loquacious

If you would like your dating or male/female interaction questions answered, please send an email to loquacious@loquaciouscurmudgeon.net with the word “Advice” in the subject.

Remember, I might make fun of you.

the worst thing about love problems is that they are constantly on your mind!!!!

I am not 100% agree with you “Western Truck Driving Jobs”. I have a friend who have continuous problem in love. And he is doing all of his work perfectly without having any problem. He don’t even think for a single moment about his problem.

I am also passing a situation like you.Its really hard to make a decision then.

Wow..pretty nice post.I like this very much.

Love is heaven so we believe in love.

I am understanding your problem.You ahve to believe in love.

Dont Worry..Everything will be fine and normal again.

Its easy to break a relationship but its hard to keep it.

I hope that you need to change soon.

I look regularly here by and find again and again interesting and well written contributions, therefore I would like to leave here times a greeting from Thuringia in Germany!

Great response uncle Loquacious! I’ll be writing you a letter too, hope you can help with your insight

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